other halfs nanny died really suddenly last night and we are both devastated, i was very close with her and am finding it hard to support other half and hold myself together at the same time, i keep finding myself spouting **** just to fill the silence...

need some positive vibes sent my way if you can xxxxxx

Ahhh Shoogs, thats so sad! Lots of positive and sympathetic vibes heading your way! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

hugs and kisses comming your way
have a good cry together it'll help
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hugs to u both xxxxxx

Hey Shoogs , so sorry for your loss , really don't know what else to say other than big hugs and love to you both and the bubbies xx

sorry to hear your sad news : (

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Big massive hugs on the way ready

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Oh Shoogsy that is terrible. Thinking of you and h2b, hope you make it through the next few tough days ok. spouting **** is fine...i am sure he doesn't mind at all. Maybe you need to go out for a walk together, toalk about how you both feel so he knows you're jsut as upset, and then work together on getting over it. That way one doesn't think he/ she has to hold anything back from the other.
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Sorry to hear your news x big hug x
your always here for everyone else,now its our turn
love to you both xxx louise xx

cheers guys, we know we can talk if we need to , hes the strong silent type bless him, hes just working things out in his own head at the moment and i need to let him do that. just feel so damn use less x

Ah honey, sorry to hear that. I agree that it's fine to talk ****. Sometimes silence is worse anyway. Hope you both/all begin to heal soon x

That's so sad - so sorry to hear that. I think you just have to do what feels right at these times, if that's spouting **** then spout away. Take care x

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I'm sure he knows that you're there for him if and when he needs to talk.

This is totally wierd shoogs! so did my h2bs!!!!!!!!

Although it wasnt sudden and we were totally prepared for it but big hugs to you and h2b it must have come as an awful shock to you both take care hun.

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Oh sweets, what sad news. If you want to chat or spout **** in my direction feel free, I may be useless but I am here if needed :) xxx Big hugs and mega love xxx

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its crap isnt it babe...

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oh hun, im sorry for your loss x

thanks so much you lot,

its nice to know that we can take the piss out of each other but still be there when we need each others support. you girls rock and i love you all xxxxxxx

shoogs...sending muchos love and good vibes your way.
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Give him space if he wants it be there for when he needs to talk but don't smoother him.

Let him cry it doesn't matter if you are crying too.

Sorry that you are both having to go through this

Take care and look after each other

Viv xxx

thats good advice viv, thanks xxx