hiya, I am not getting married until April 2014,so ave not booked anything yet, but I think we know what we would like. I have just read a thread in which people have managed to get there whole wedding under 6k - have a minimum of 130 day guests coming (no that can't be changed

) and then prob another 100 later on - how have you all managed to get such fantastic deals with venues etc, what s the armour I need to go into battle ( negotiations) with? Top tips please