THE WEDDINGS OFF!!!

Me and my H2B are now on a break and im heartbroken. Our relationship is on his head as he said he feels he needs some space and feels im more like a friend at the moment. Im not even engaged anymore I gave him back the ring as i feel it has no use to me now!

I thought everything was fine this was all sprung on my yesterday. We were trying for a baby and planning the wedding and now this!

It's the hardest thing ive ever had to do in my life to cut all ties with him for 2 whole weeks!

I need all the support I can get right now ladies xx

Please help me to get through this as their may even be a wedding if he decides he still wants to be with me as he said he just cant see himself ever with anyone else xx

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oh you poor girl.
It sounds as tho he's just a bit freaked out, and like he said needs some breathing space. we all know how such huge life changing plans can throw men a bit of a wobbly!
let him have a bit of space, but also make it clear that you still love him and will support him. you're in this together. I really don't think he'll be walking away from everything, but if it's a breather he needs then that's ok.
i guess you could suggest a cheap weekend away from everything, with the golden rule 'we're not allowed to discuss the wedding!'- that way you get some quality time together?
sorry, i'm very new at this wedding arranging thing (get engaged in june and gettin married nxt month!), so I hope i'm making sense!
xx

Yh you are making perfect sense x

I am defo going to give him the space and he knows that. I told him 'I just want you to know I love you' 'and if you want to contact me in that 2 weeks im just a phone call away, but you will not here from me in that 2 weeks'.

I've asked him if its all this with the wedding and that and he said no but I dont know.

If we get back together I will suggest that weekend to him. The only thing that scares me is I dont think he's going to come back! xx

That's such a good idea!

Perhaps after your break a wedding free weeekend may be the exact tonic you both need!

Do you live together?

I am online all day and will be here to chat if you need anything!

Big hugs honey! x x x x

Thank you both x

Yes we both live with my mom x
Well hes at his moms now and I cried myself to sleep as ive never slept without him for 2 years x

Oh sweetheart I feel so bad for you
I know exactly what you mean about sleeping alone, I would be in such a state if something like this happened to me, my heart really goes out to you.
((hugs))

Oh honey - what's your mum's reaction to all of this? Is she supportive of you? Is she someone you can confide in?
Are you in work now?
( Sorry for all the questions!) x

Questions are good talking to someone makes me feel better x

My mom has been really good she came home from work early for me yesterday x

I dont currently work at the moment and I can feel myself slowly going into depression x

Awww poor you! Big hugs!
All you can do is sit down and talk to him in 2 weeks time about how you both feel.
We are all here if you need to chat until then X

Well, my love, then I am here to talk - listen - pass you virtual kleenex if you need it!
Crying is the best way for you to let out all the frustration right now.
Depression is a really strong word and you have to make sure you lean on as many people through this time and don't shut down - that's when depression really sets in !
x x x