I know I've done wrong!!! - I need advice.

Sorry to do this guys but I've buckled and signed in under a different identity. What I'm about to tell you is eating me up inside and I can't cope any longer.
I recently had my hen night in Brighton and whilst away met the man of my dreams! I've fallen hook, line and sinker for him and only have 3 weeks to my wedding. He makes me feel so special and he hits all the right buttons,. We've been in touch since my hen night and i can;t stop thinking about him. I feel awaful cos of what I'm doing to my h2b but I don't want to cancel the wedding as we have 3 children together and i really do love him!
What should i do, I'm so confused?

Trollop!

If you really love your h2b, you will sever all coonections with this other guy and concentrate on your wedding. If you can't, then you can't get married. Simple as.

Haha missclarry - Harsh! LOL!
Seriously though, are you sure this isn't just the jitters? It can really make you doubt things, and to be honest, I can't see how this man could be the man of your dreams after a v short amount of time? Grass is always greener and all that.
However, I have to say, that you owe it to your h2b to sort this out pronto, and your little ones. I personally would recommend cuttin all contact with this guy. You either want to be with h2b or you don't.
xx

You have to decide between the two men, it's not fair on either of them. If you no longer want to be with h2b you have to tell him, in the long run it will be better for the kids for things not to end up with you hating each other. If you chose you h2b you have got to cut the other man out of your life. FOR GOOD!!

I think while you make this decision you have to ask this new man not to contact you, and you can't contact him.

You must know that your h2b deserves better than to get married to someone who is in love with someone else. So as hard as it is, in the long run it would be better to call of the wedding if you chose this other man over your h2b,

Thanks Miss Clarry, why did you bother replying if you couldn't give me any valuable advice. Although, I do feel a bit of a trollop!

It might well be jitters, I honestly don't know! When we met something just clicked and I can't stop thinking about him. I don't have anyone to talk to about it. He saya he wants me to run away with him but i've spent so much on the wedding, i know that sound really shallow but my dress alone cost me £4500!! Maybe if i invited him to the wedding.

WIND UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Be strong and ditch this guys number before you throw everything away....and by not hsving any contact this guy may hopfully leave you alone to get married to the man you LOVE!......but if on the other hand you are in 2 minds then it would be wrong to marry!!!
Never stay together or use the excuse that you have 2 children together......children will be happy if their parents are and quite clearly you arn't that!!!
Im not here to judge just to offer my opinion....
we all make mistakes of one sort or another but you can rectify this my concentrating on your man!!!!

jacq x

Oh haha. Here we go, it's the weekend again isn't it?

What a load of pish go find something else to do

DO NOT INVITE HIM TO THE WEDDING!!!!

Maybe if I invited him to the wedding????????
Are you crazy!!! I think your probably having jitters I mean try to imagine a day just one day without your h2b in your life at all no calls, no one to go home to just day to day life without him is it worth throwing away what you have for a fling cause at the momment thats all it is! Its easy to run from everything but if you really can't stay with your h2b don't marry him, you at least owe him the decency of telling him before you make a complete fool of him whatever the dress cost!

charlatanchick , i dont think thats a good idea hun, are you for real? you are going to marry someone and invite the other guy to the wedding, with your 3 kids there? he wants you to run away with him, but your worried about how much your dress costs - what about your 3 kids, surely they should be more important than teh dress, maybe you are really confused, but thats a really weird thing to say.
anyway, it depends what pushes the right buttons mean, if it means you have been unfaithful then you should not be getting married, imagine if it was the other way around how devestated woudl you be, how devestated will your kids be, sounds a bit funny to me, but you need to see things for what they are x

charlatanchick

wow and wow again,

i suggest you write the disadvantage and advantage of both guys.who ever has the most advantage is who you continue your life with.

does the new guy know about h2b?
how long have u been with two h2b?


Just remember life is about choice

Eh!? I hope you're not for real, inviting the man you're considering running off with to your wedding!!!???