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Just had another bust up with mil2b, It was my hen night over the weekend and all the pictures have been put on facebook. My mum dosnt have an account so my dad put them on his. My dad is a nurse and so is mil2b and know alot of the same people so some girls at work today said to mil2b "I saw the pics of the hen night, you dont look like your enjoying it very much.

So when i got home from work today she said "Im abit f***ing pissed off that my f****ng pictures were put on facebook without telling me.

I said all the pictures from the night are on there. So she said "yes but im pissed off that mine are on there and I looking like im having a %&*$# time. (there is alot of history with mil2b and she is known as abit of a dragon for screwing up her daughters wedding so she wanted to put on a show for the hen night)

I said "oh my god, right ok. and she said "no its not f***ing ok" so I raised my voice and said dont use that language with me!" She denied saying anything offensive and I got really angry and lost it with her
and shouted "oh f**k off, this is a mad house" (it really is, the in-laws argue all the time, and if they arnt argueing they pick fights with their kids)

she said "you dont have to live here" to which i replied "I wish I didnt!!!" and now im hiding out upstairs.
I do understand that some people dont want their pictures up on facebook and I will happily ask my dad to remopve them but 1) She was so agressive with me that I lost it with her. 2) The only reason she wants them taken down is because everyone knows what a bitch she is for ruining her daughters wedding, and 3) she hasnt even seen the pictures, in fact there are only 2 of her on there. one is of her talking and the other is of my friend doing my sisters lipgloss and she is in the background she does look grumpy but thats because shes not smiling for the camera. The pic is not of her!!!!

she sounds like a right pain in the ass to me. some people just hate to see other people happy. my mum is the same. they just like to be difficult witches!!

OK, I think you should apologise and tell her you will get the 2 photos with her in them removed from facebook. I don't think you're in the wrong, but you are living with her and probably need to be the bigger person right now!

I hate living here, h2b was a student up untill march and has just got a full time job so hopefully we should be moving out soon, They offered to let us move in while he was at uni so we could "save money" but really it was so his controlling loser father could watch his every move! Seriously, Russ cant fart without his dad wanting to know about it!!

I know it sounds like they are the perfect in-laws, letting us stay with them ect but I would rather be in a cardboard box!!Ive had enough. All they ever do is scream, and if its not at eachother its at me!! Ive never known anything like it!!!

I know your right rue, its so hard though. Im too old to be spokent to like that, we are both adults and she cannot talk down to me like that, I am not her child! I just heard her say that it gives the impression to his ex that shes not happy about us getting married.

Russ's ex has moved on with her life just like he has. He has spoken to her on facebook a few times and they still chat every now and again but thats it, I honestly dont think it makes any difference to her if we got married or not! This is what i mean by mad house! shes a fruit cake!!

[Modified by: xkayleighcakesx on July 06, 2009 08:31 PM]

Hun, I know how you feel!!!!
My MIL2B isnt mean though, just crazy!
We were ment to be staying with her for about 3 months between moving houses but thats turned into 3 years after endless 'Please dont leave me's' From H2B's mum!
She even walks into my room while im getting changed!

Really hard situation to be in while you know they are doing you a favour but that dont mean she can be rude to you!
Stear clear, get the pics taken off and get out as fast as you can!!!
I would print one of the pictures off and frame it for her! LOL

Hang in there hun!
xxx

haha such a wicked idea silverpinky, She might just beat me into next week though lol