Hi girls
I didn't know there was an ME thread on ES but there have been a couple on GC over the last year or so which I've contributed to.
I've had M.E/CFS and Fibro for 9 years. I went from having a successful career with an active social life to being bed and house bound. Things have improved since then and I'm able to go out a few times a week but I still struggle with the pain.
I'm also really bad at 'pacing' and have recently been to an M.E/CFS clinic run by the NHS for 10 weeks to learn how to manage the illness better. Having had it for 9 years, there was a lot I knew already as well as a few things I've taken on board. I tend to boom and bust and don't have much structure in my days, so I'm trying to get that part of my life sorted at the moment

It was also nice to meet other people with the same problem as it's the first time I'd been to a group like that. If I'd been when I was newly diagnosed, it may have been more helpful, but at least the service is now available.
I'm going to try the Lightening Experience after the wedding next year and that may prove to be helpful (or otherwise). I'll go in with an open mind and see what happens.
Hope everyone's having as good a day as you can

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