mother-in-law 2b doing flowers?!!

hi all im new to this site and as you can see by the time left untill my "speacial day" i wish i had found you a year or so ago!!!!

my wonderful mother in law 2b has the intentions of doing my flowers for the venue which i am pleased about as she will be saving me a fortune... the problem is she is leaving it a little late to come back with any confirmation of my ideas and designs, in fact she is keeping very quiet......is that a good thing?? im not sure im actually panicking just a tad!!!!!!
My gorgeous and Very patient h2b reassures me that she has it in hand.....but what should i do.....confront her or trust her and let her get on with it??

If she hasnt done anything towards the buying of the materials i will go nuts and it could potentially ruin an otherwise good relationship so would welcome any wise advice thanks in advance xx:\?

[Modified by: soooready!!! on 10 March 2010 23:10:00 ]