mother of the groom

I get on really well with my H2B's mother and this is great but is causing to big problems!!


1. Everything we decided about the wedding both mothers have had a bad comment about esp my mother in law to be, on the most we have tried to please them and change as much as we can but then that still isn't good enough and then the comments come again from H2B's mother on the new plan.
I cant help but to take it out on H2B as it is his mother and HE needs to tell her this is how it is and not me!!

2. My mother has the green eyed monster syndrome she hates the fact that I get on so well with H2B's mother despite the comments on plans. This is making me feel torn between the 2 when I know I shouldn't!!!

Am I making more of this that I should????