wedding reception ruined

my wedding was great well the church part and the limo ride as soon as we got to the wedding recption it went down hill form ther onwards we wanted people to stand when we were intorduced but it was like no one noticed cause that didnt happen seconed the food was messed up i was fed last which wasnt cooked then made me ill so i couldnt enjoy my self we had the speaches and no one listned after the food and we were made to cut the cake in a rush a member of the grooms family sent the photographer home then all of his family up and left we then got the disco started and had our first dance but obviously we have no photos of that eventually the grooms family came back they in fact blanked me the whole day we dont have any photos of them with us because they wouldnt have any by late evening still feeling sick and having to keep goin out because of it one of my non family guests who i had to invite to be polite caused a fight and the reception got called to a stop so i ended up back home by half ten i want to know if any one knows of how i can get over this as i cant forget about what a rotten time i had after the church we had thought about having a blessing in church then a party but we have already don the church thing so we thought just a party to replace the last one ???? but would it be wrong to where my dress i love it so muc i dont want it to go to waste plus it is my re wedding recption plus my dad would even be able to make it as he couldnt make my wedding day confused and depressed