We used Buy our Honeymoon and I cannot recommend it enough! Easy to set up and customise and we had really good feedback from our guests- they loved it!
You can add household items too as you can make up the list of experiences/ accommodation/ meals etc yourself. The customer service was really good and they replied quickly to questions. Also the thing I liked most about this site vs the others was the option to set up Stripe payments so your guests can pay by credit / debit card. We felt it made it feel more like guests were buying an item rather than just dropping money into our account, even though eventually that's what happens of course they can still pop a cheque in a card and just 'reserve' a gift if they prefer.
We paid the fee (2.5% I think) but for us it was worth it as we felt so awkward about asking for money in the first place so it just felt a bit nicer. There are other payment options such as PayPal which I think was free or at least cheaper but then it's just a transfer from their account to yours.
We did speak to a couple of close friends/ family who had expressed interest in the list and advised them to pay by cheque and just reserve the item online which they did but I suppose it depends how well you know people and what your preference is.
I guess the best thing is that buy our honeymoon provides all these options so you can pick one that works best for you ????
Stripe charge a fee of 1.9% + 20p for UK-issued cards, or 2.9% + 20p for international cards on each transaction, deducted from the amount you receive.
Accepting credit card payments through PayPal can be convenient for both you and your guests, but please be aware that PayPal always charge a fee (typically 3.4% + £0.20) per transaction, deducted from the funds you receive.
GoCardless charge a fee of 1% of each transaction, deducted from the amount you receive.
So if the guest pays £10 via go cardless we will get £9.90?