Hello all
I wonder if anyone can offer me some advice. My sister is going to be my maid of honour. Initially it took a while for her to decide whether she wanted the job, she initially said no and put her decision down to the fact that she is 4 years older than me (36) and single and she felt uncomfortable being the single older sister! Since then she has come round to the idea but I am finding that her jealousy is creeping through rather a lot. She is so grumpy and moody when I talk about the wedding and ask her for opinions etc (the wedding is in June this year). I am at the end of my tether... she doesn't open up, so trying to talk to her is hopeless, my mother has tried and it ended in tears with her saying she wanted everything I had and felt bad that she couldn't hide her feelings with me. The other problem is that she has always been overweight and is battling with a pre-wedding diet at the moment, I on the other hand have always been a size 8-10 and this again is causing issues. I don't want her to diet I just want her to be happy on the day - but I think she is feeling agitated that I am not battling with the same wieght issue as her.
Please help - I'm worried she is going to upset me on the big day by behaving in this mean spirited and spoilt way. I am trying to see things from her perspective but right now I am struggling!!
All help appreciated!
Tx
