Hi this may not sound like a big dilema and maybe it isn't but! How can I purchase things off the net without h2b knowing? As he has the paypal account he can see what site i have been on... All i want is to buy him little surprise gifts for wedding morning and get myslef a Mrs.... t-shirt but obviously not wanting him too know. If any brides have ways n means plz let me know. Thanks x x

do you have an email addreess? can you set up your own pay pal account?
some sites don't need paypal!

set up your own paypal account

Can you not set up your own Paypal account, or pay for things on your own card?

I know what you mean about being secretive - I'm squirrling away money each month to pay for my present for h2b, he hasn't noticed so far!

OMG i really want to know this too!! Its so hard work isnt it x

thought of paypal acc but i am no expert on the p.c plus h2b is,that's his job.. he can look at history seen what been looked at if that make sense oh dear may have to get my sis to do the buying then pay her back, that how i got his fav football team to sign a card x but wish i could do it all myslef instead of relying on sis oh well!!

I still use h2b's paypal on ebay as there is no point setting my own up.. he always asks if there are messages on can he have a look or is it wedding related? If it is not on ebay I use my own card and tend to get things delivered to work, but unfortunately I have to use his ebay account.. he is sweet and does not look if I ask him not to..

Setting up your own account might be an option though..

Just go to the paypal site, click on register then follow the instructions, I think it's fairly easy!

http://support.microsoft.com/kb/157729 Here's how to clear your history on the PC.

thanks you all, BUT he will be able to tell history has been cleared sure of it, then i have to explain why?? is it worth it? how hard is it to keep serects lol x will try set up own account. if can ,even though on pc it automatically goes into his pay pal arrrggghhhhh technoolgy

You don't have to delete all the history, you can just select the bits you want to delete.

i know i hate all this secrecy - won't be continuing when wedding over hehe!!
i fortunately don't have a problem - all accounts are set up and maintained by me - it is really easy - if i can do it ... haha! its more h2b secretive buying thats freaking me out ... too many emails and texts and i CANT work out what it is!!!!! really thinking of starting to ask you all to place bets for what it is!!
in fact i may start a post and offer a prize .....

XXXX

first dilema sorted, just called the company over phone and purchased instead of using paypal, but he most prob look at my statement x at least u getting a gift sn2bmrswardlaw as my h2b has told me he has no budgeted for buying me a gift! hope is joking boo hoo

what's the big deal about clearing the web history?

it's good for the computer to get rid of the junk that's not being used, and if he asks, tell him that it's because you anted to buy a surprise for him - doesn't mean he has to know what it is.

oh, and def set up your own paypal

clearing the web history, he will know i am hiding something, so not want to get into an argument over something sooo little as his gift lol

I'd just say I'm buying stuff but you can't look cos its a secret but a nice one so go away lol

well i've bit the bullet and ordered the surprise items i want so if he starts questioning me i will tell him u galz will be after him lol x x

y would he look at your history? My h2b doesnt check mine as i just tell him there are some wedding things which i have to order and thats its unlucky for him to see and he just says ok and leaves me to it - i have had 2 use his paypal account for a few things (tried setting up my own but it didnt work) and he didnt check at least he said he didnt but it was only bm gifts i did that with just in case - we have a joint account and so share a credit card and cheque book so its not easy lol but as long as the name on the statement isnt a total give away again i just say it was a wedding thing i ordered and he doesnt bother investigating that any further either lol!

why dont you use a friends pc or get someone else to buy it on your behalf ?

well galz, my h2b is sooo nosey (lol) he wld want to snoop,plus i use his pc so he always checking, he wolud say have we budgeted for that blah blah blah, the purse strings r tightly closed with him at mo lol so i gonna get my sis to purchase goods then repay her, or like u say use her pc with my card. Men hey, glad it only the wedding time gotta be secretive it sooooooooooooo HARD! lol x