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  • Posted by Cuba09

Help - I have asked one of my friends to be my one and only BM - however, now im really regretting it, because it can go weeks before I see or hear anything from her and sometimes I feel like she is using me when she has nothing better to do. And this is the big thing - I think she secretly fancies my H2B- because Ive noticed she flicks her eyes at him and always tried to turn the conversation to how many men fancy her and more intimate details (such as the last time she had sex etc). H2B thinks Im being silly - but i cant help think womens intuition knows best - so what do I do? How can I tell her I dont want her as a BM anymore???

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Help - I wish I hadnt asked!

Is there someone else who could take her place?

I would say go with your intuition and lose her. Ofcourse you are going to upset her but you have real reasons for her not to take such a role.

This is ofcourse a day of enormous importance and why let someone who you feel doesn't really value you share too much in that?

Personally if I had suspicions a friend of mine secretly fancied my man I wouldn't be giving her invitation or reason to get any nearer him!

Good luck. Do what you think is best regardless of what others think. xx

Posted by msmuffina
April 16, 2008 09:27 PM
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