Let down by friends

HI, My H2B was bestman for one of his friends a few years ago and so understabdably he considers him as one of his best friends. Before we set our wedding date we checked out possible dates with the people who were most important to us, including this friends to make sure the dates were good for them. We actually planned to get married in September, but this friend couldn't do the date and so we rescheduled for October. We send the invites out about a month ago and only got a call from his friend the other day to say our date clashed with aother friends wedding so he could not come!! My H2B is actually really hurt and feels that at friendship he really valued was perhaps a bit of a sham. I am upset too and really angry. I feel like giving this friend what for and am in danger of having a bit of a bridezilla moment (I have avoided this so far!!!) I feel this has put a reall downer on everything and I'm not sure how to pick myself up. Shoudl I speak to his friend or just try and get over it?

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