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The order of service
  • The order of service

  • You’ve chosen the music and the readings, now it’s time to write the order of service….

The order of service is a step-by-step account of what your guests can expect throughout the ceremony. Whether you're having a civil or religious ceremony, giving an order of service to your guests as they arrive will ensure everyone knows what to expect and doesn't sneak off at a crucial moment (ie - when you're exchanging your vows!) Some people like to include the complete breakdown of the service - including the words of the minister and response of the couple, whereas others use it only as a guide with the basic details of the service and perhaps printed words to the hymns or songs too.

Here's how to set out your order of service: 

Front page

  • Name of place of marriage
  • The marriage of ....... (bride and groom's names)
  • Date and time

Inside

  • Entrance music for bride
  • Hymn/song (words)
  • The marriage
  • Prayers (optional)
  • Reading (optional)
  • Blessing (optional)
  • Hymn/song (words)
  • Reading/blessing (optional)
  • Signing of the register
  • Exit music for bride and groom


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