Bridesmaids come in all ages and sizes but the chief bridesmaid is traditionally a single, grown-up friend of the bride. If married, she's called the matron of honour.
- Very small bridesmaids are mainly there to look cute, although you might be able to persuade one of them to hold a ring cushion as she follows you down the aisle.
- In the run-up to the wedding, the chief bridesmaid should help with the planning, including helping the bride to choose her dress, going-away outfit (if she's having one) and attendants' clothes.
- Organising the hen night is also the responsibility of the chief bridesmaid, in consultation with the bride, obviously.
- On the day itself, the chief bridesmaid should help the bride dress and keep her calm.
- Just before the ceremony, the chief bridesmaid is in charge of arranging the bride's dress and veil and making sure any young attendants have their flowers and know what to do.
- If the bride isn't carrying a handbag, the chief bridesmaid takes charge of the bride's lipstick for touch-ups during the day, as well as having a kit for emergencies (containing plasters, safety pins, etc).
- Other bridesmaids are mainly there to support the bride on her big day though they should also keep an eye on guests at the reception to make sure everyone is happy.
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