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Who does what at your wedding: the ushers?
  • Who does what at your wedding: the ushers?

  • They are the first friendly faces your guests will see at the ceremony, so make sure your ushers know their role

Although not as central as the best man - they don't have to make a speech! - ushers play a very important part welcoming guests, organising the ceremony seating and distributing details of the service.
  • As friends of the groom, the ushers are obliged to attend his stag night!
  • Ushers are, in effect, the groom's "troops", helping the best man to keep things running smoothly, marshalling the guests and making sure they know where they're supposed to be.
  • Ushers should arrive at the ceremony early to greet the first arrivals.
  • The chief usher escorts the groom's parents and the bride's mother to their seats.
  • At the church/ceremony venue, ushers help guests find their seats ("Are you with the bride or the groom?") and dispense orders of service, buttonholes, etc, if necessary.
  • Each usher traditionally accompanies a bridesmaid back down the aisle and out of the church/ceremony venue.
  • After the service, ushers need to make sure that everyone who needs a lift to the reception has one.
  • At the reception, ushers mingle with the guests making sure everyone knows where everything is, ie parking, changing, washing facilities.

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