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How to choose your bridesmaid dresses

You've chosen your bridesmaids, so now it's time to shop! We've rounded up our top tips for a fun and fuss-free search for the gown that both you and your best girls will love.

If you thought finding the perfect wedding dress was hard work, just wait until it comes to finding bridesmaid dresses that fit your colour scheme, work for the season of your wedding AND that your bridesmaids love.


We’ve pulled together our top tips to make finding the perfect wedding dress an easy (and fun!) experience.

We adore these pretty pink Jasmine gowns

Start with research

Aimlessly wandering into bridal boutiques or along the high street might seem like a fun Saturday afternoon, but it can be overwhelming. There’s so much choice out there, so to stop yourself getting disheartened make sure you’ve spent some time working out what you you’re looking for.

Buy magazines, look on Instagram, create a Pinterest board – you’ve probably done all of this when searching for your own dress so why not for your bridesmaids? Trust us – it helps!

Have an idea in your head of the colour you’d like your bridesmaids to wear – check out our galleries below to inspire your choice

Don’t feel like all of your girls need to be in the same colour. It’s a common misconception that all your girls have to be matching on the big day – try mismatched bridesmaid dresses to keep all of them happy, be they different colours in the same gown or the same colour in different styles.

It’s not all about the colour of your bridesmaid dresses, though. You also need to think about the style. From off-the-shoulder bridesmaid dresses, to floral patterned bridesmaid dresses, to gowns with one shoulder, there’s so much to choose from.

Choose your budget

There’s a long-running debate over who pays for the bridesmaid dresses; if you’ve kindly offered to pay for the gowns, set a clear budget for your bridesmaids. You don’t want anyone falling in love with a dress that is wildly over budget.

If this does happen, you could gently suggest that the bridesmaid pays the difference between your budget and the dress she wants.

Things to consider when choosing bridesmaid dresses

Fancy your girls in ’50s style strapless tea dresses but have booked a Scottish castle in December? You might have to rethink your vision. Moaning maids are not what you need on the happiest day of your life, so make sure the dresses are both pretty and practical.

Will she be your ‘something blue’, as seen at Dorothy Perkins?

Separate celebrations

TOP TIP: Go wedding dress hunting long before you start looking for your bridesmaids gowns. That way, you get your own special day without worrying about how your girls are feeling, and you’ll know exactly what will complement your frock.

Read our advice for everything you need to know before wedding dress shopping before hitting the shops on your own spree.

Timing is key

In fact, purchasing bridesmaid dresses can be one of the last tasks on your wedding to-do list. This way, any changes to your girls’ figures (e.g. pregnancy) are less of an issue, and costly alterations can be avoided! You’ll also (hopefully) have the rest of your day sorted, so colour clashes won’t be an issue either.

If any of your bridesmaids are pregnant, check our edit of the best maternity bridesmaid dress.

So many different styles available at Kelsey Rose

Bridesmaid shopping online

Although the experience of going out and trying different pieces on can be super fun, the logistics aren’t always so easy. After visiting a few boutiques, consider bulk ordering a selection of gowns online, and trying them on in the comfort of your own home. It means your bridesmaids will feel comfortable and the low-pressure environment could mean they take to styles that they would usually dismiss. Win-win!

READ MORE: 23 Things That Happen In Every Bridesmaids Group Chat

Accessorise with flower crowns like at Maids to Measure

The lingerie to wear dress shopping

We cannot stress the importance of this! There’s nothing worse than trying on dresses when you’re wearing pants that don’t fit and a bra that doesn’t hold anything where it’s supposed to be. We recommend a nude strapless bra and thong (or seamless shorts) to ensure any dress style will look fabulous.

READ MORE: What To Wear Under Your Dress

Don’t let bridesmaid accessories be an afterthought

The perfect pair of shoes or a fabulous statement necklace can transform an outfit. If your maids aren’t hugely enthusiastic about the dress you’ve picked for them, maybe give them a little more authority over their accessories. Many brides leave bridesmaid to wear whatever accessories they want, or just give a colour theme to stick to.

Beware of leaving accessory shopping to the last minute, though, especially if you’ve agreed to cover the costs. Last minute splurging on jewellery or clutch bags for your maids might not be in your budget. Do give them a budget, too, if they are choosing their own.

Be assertive when bridesmaid dress shopping

Ultimately, it’s your special day, and although you want your maids to feel happy and comfortable don’t forget that the executive decision is yours. Try not to be swayed into choosing dresses that aren’t to your taste or style – you’ve invited your girls to be part of one of the most important days of your life, and they should respect that.

Saying that, it’s not an excuse to make them look silly – we’ve all seen some of the, shall we say ‘statement styles’, that Katherine Heigl endured in 27 Dresses…

Enjoy yourselves!

Like everything when it comes to wedding planning, it’s important not to get bogged down with the small stuff. Make a day of shopping with your bridesmaids – have a catch-up over cocktails or celebrate finding your perfect gowns with a dinner at the end of the day.  The motto to follow? ‘Happy bridesmaids, happy bride!’

With bridesmaid dresses in the bag, it’s time to start thinking about how to choose the perfect bridesmaid hairstyles.


This article was originally posted here.